- You deserve all of Your own Credit ~ and all of Your own Blame
- Everyone has Their own Life to Manage; They usually respect the life YOU HAVE going on & expect the same. Make Time Important!
- Give People something to look forward to, to visit, to inspire, to be motivated to be interested in, to care about … and they will!
- Hold People Hostage and They not only will avoid You, they Hope something happens that They ever won’t HAVE to…
Manipulators never really win anything
but Mental Slavery to their Sick Attachments that aren’t capable of having the
same feelings or the same energy.
When People are mutual willing participants
involved or interacting on some level, and both mutually HAVE lives
going on & are managing their lives and give People something to actually
miss, to care about, to look forward to and motivate them to want to be around them ~ They do…!
And People also need to feel that ~ in the
MEANTIME, in lieu of making time important you are managing your OWN life
unless you respect, ask & appreciate support along the way. This means that you are ready for a SOLUTION to a conflict or a problem & are willing to take responsibility for it & not blame someone else or expect them to solve your problem FOR you. Most people care about you enough to help you solve the problem, not solve the problem FOR you. Especially if you are not a spouse or on a similar intimate level with this person Actually, this will offend most people that you put them in a position that you would definitely not care enough to do the same (because you don't even care enough about your OWN problem to play a role).
All People should need is
participation, support & understanding between Lives; managing their Own Lives in the meantime
until making time important & participation in something between others.
No One is required to SACRIFICE, no One
is required to COMPROMISE, no One is required to CARE or be INTERESTED
any more than you are in THEM.
It is Human Nature to feel resentment when Someone
else is insulting Your intelligence & wasting Your time.
No one is really IN Someone else’s way in
finding your own “way” in your own life, this is a Personal aspect that needs
to be managed by the Individual & communicated to Others.
No one else is responsible for LIVING your life
FOR You or Sacrificing & Compromising on a personal level as a Best
Friend, Spouse or Family Member.
No one can justify taking Someone else’s life
THAT PERSONALLY when they are not involved on a personal level as a Spouse,
Family Member or Best Friend on that level of Understanding.
Variety really IS the spice of Life. Experimentation with a variety of interests,
people and things usually lead to chemistry with other people that enjoy the
same things that you can make time with and SHARE those things.
People decide MUTUALLY where & how their
interactions & involvement fall into place, ideally making healthier &
healthier decisions along their way.
There is nothing EVIL about being aware of & honest about
your true feelings, unless you are not being HONEST?
Hanging on to Lose/Lose Situations
instead of seeking more healthy relationships or coming to a mutual Win/Win
Situation in some way is not Rational.
This is a Person afraid of losing ANYTHING ~
even something limiting, stagnant, worthless, and not capable of being
of any mutual benefit.
There can be benefit in tolerating Others and
being aware of what can be extracted & mutually shared in a positive way
but it doesn’t always blossom into a “relationship” or apart of Someone’s life
in any real way.
